Have you ever received an email that is the culmination of a dozen previous forwards? So you spend what feels like hours opening up individual attachments to get to the actual email to find a joke that you’ve heard before. Or, you have to scroll down about a ½ mile in order get past all the previous forwards.
If so, the person who sent it to you has made a breach of netiquette. Just like social etiquette, netiquette are those rules one is expected when engaging in online activity. Consider these rules when sending an email.
- Clean up the email before forwarding it along: Delete out all the previous forwarding addresses. Your recipients will thank you. Your mail might even get read!
- Forwarding emails as attachments is an act of evil: You could be sending out the meaning of life, but if the reader has to dig down through 10 attachments to get to it, nobody will ever read it.
- Verify before hitting “SEND”: Verify not only the addresses of the recipients, but the content of the email. This includes spell-checking, as well as fact-checking. Are cell phone numbers really going public? Did Microsoft really buy the Catholic Church? A simple Google search will verify or discredit the information.
- Know the recipients: Will the recipients find the email interesting or be offended by it? Are they on a dial-up connection and likely have trouble receiving the massive video clip you’re sending? Just like giving a good speech: Know your audience.
- Emails are not like cell phone texts: It is quite appropriate to spell everything out in an email. You are not charged for how many words you put into an email, so there is no need to skimp on words in place of acronyms and proper grammar. As far as I’m concerned
- Make appropriate use of capital letters: TYPING LIKE THIS IS EQUAL TO SHOUTING AT THE RECIPIENT. Just don’t do it, unless you are going for emphasis or really need to vent.
- “Reply to all” is to be avoided: This is really a sub-set of Rule #4. I recently was privy to a conversation among a client and their HR department. What started off as a conversation regarding their internet connection changed topics. The client continued to use “reply to all” when discussing salaries. I did not have any need to know this and it just took up space in my inbox.
- Work email is not private: As an employee, you are borrowing an email address from the company in order to do your job. The company owns that address, not you. As such anything you send can be reviewed for appropriateness.
- The “Enter” key is your friend: Break up long paragraphs with a space. If the topic requires you to go indepth, do your reader a favor and break up the text. As a corollary: Cut to the chase. Keep it short and to the point.
- Do not use Read/Delivery Receipts: Their software might not support receipts and is more likely to annoy the recipient. If you are concerned if somebody read your email, request a reply within the body of the email. Something along the lines of “Let me know what you think” is much more effective than asking the person to confirm that the email has been received. Plus, you end up with a bunch of useless receipts sitting in your inbox.






